Hello, everyone! :) This question was inspired by a few blatant displays of proud ignorance by black men on this website and off of this website.
Disclaimer: I am not a "bitter black woman" just because I like to put the spotlight on the truth in it's most genuine form. My thirst for debate and quest to hear others' insight on this topic does not automatically make me a bitter black female and if assume that I am without getting to know me and more about my perceptions, then you're small minded.
Men with dominant African ancestry, particularly African American men, appear to be the only race of men who consistently praise and uplift non-black females while they sh*t on the women of their race. Be it that they are not as attracted to their features or they are using stereotypes and applying them to females they haven't even taken the time to know, yet use stereotypes to justify unattraction. Which is interesting because they share the same features. So to suggest that a non-black female's features look better than a black female's features would be equal to suggesting a non-black male's features look better than a black male's features, right? That is what makes the term 'self-hate' come to mind. If you are claiming that African ancestral features that you share are unattractive then you are more or less saying your features are unattractive as well.
Anyway, I don't know if most of you non-black people realize it, but when black men date interracially, seek interracial relationships, and breed interracial children, 9/10 times it's the source of a negative, unhealthy, disgraceful mentality than it really is out of "love has no color". My thoughts? Interracial dating is beautiful :) it really shows how far humanity has come as a whole, BUT when someone interracially dates because they hate their ethnicity; it's pathetic. Their interracial romance is a product of some genuine mental issues they have going on with acceptance of their ancestry. It's almost like they date outside of their race to feel better about themselves. For black people especially, this is a smack in the face to our ancestors because they went through so much just so that we could be free and some black men walk around and subliminally say "I glorify the culture and people that oppressed you. Whiteness is better than blackness even though you spent your life struggling and fighting so that I could even date interracially without getting lynched" when they degrade black females for having African ancestry.
What are your thoughts on this topic?
if they could hear the way black men talk about black women today. They spent their lives being dehumanized and fighting for the future African Americans to be free only for black men to
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They don't like being black. There is no pill to magically change themselves into white or Latino men (if there were, they'd take it) so the next best thing is to make sure their children are mixed. They can't make their kids 100% nonblack but 50% is the best they can do. Those are the same guys buying out Duke texturizer kits and brushing their "waves" every 5 minutes so they look like they have wavy hair and can tell people they're mixed lol.
Lots of races do this by the way, we're just the ones who put our dirty laundry out in the street for everyone to see. Skin bleaching is extremely popular in Asia, and a dark skinned Indian girl for example won't get the first pick of guys like an Aishwarya Rai looking girl would.0