spme people dont. some do. when you firts get together both pwople are affectionate because there's high attraction. after a while affectionate people are STILL affectionae., whislt people who were only affectionate because of high physical attraction setle down.
QA you gys are not compatable physically/ affectionatelt. if youee 'ok' with that. stay. but imo, you're settling. you should be with someonw who wants it as mu sso you don't feel needy.
just like if a person LOVES sex. it'd be stupid to say with someone who only wants it once a month.
if you are putting a lot into a relationship, you should get a lot back. BUT you can't change people. if he is not feeling it, he is not feeling it. but this is not because its just a normal phase. this is him, and this is u. you are very different.
if it was just a matter of the honeymoon period. youd BOTH be done wanting affection. its different needs uve got. a lot of people hold affection to be VERY important. many dont. find someone who does. he's not worthy of what you need. just like what you need is not worthy of what he needs.
no amount of favors will turn him into an affectionate person just like no amount of favors will make someone who doesn't love sex, love sex. you guys are who you r. its no ones 'fault;. though maybe next time, ask the person more about who they are in real life. not in courting life.
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I think this is pretty normal. My boyfriend and I seemed to "settle down" a bit after about 8 months into our relationship. But that can be different for everyone. I really struggled with it at first, but I have come to realize that it all has to do with our level of comfort with each other. After a year and a half together, I just know that he loves me. He doesn't have to kiss me all the time, or take me out every weekend. We're just happy to be around each other... love isn't straight forward. Sometimes you have to carefully read between the lines. I wouldn't worry too much. Every relationship changes, and this is just part of the progress.
I think it's all part of the chase, when they have you they kind of slow down on the affection.
I have suggested many people and will suggest you too when you feel there is no excitement in a relationship. Bring some freshness in a relationship. Come with a cool and attractive look that will make him excited for. For example if you do a lot of makeups don't do any make-ups, change your hairstyle and try to look attractive but act normal as always. Have some flowers in the room when he comes with you came out from a bath having a freshness. He will definitely going to be attracted towards you. Try to think what you did when you started this relationship. What you have missed.
Some new cells in the relationship is required.
Give it time, he's probably just going through some stuff right now.
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It could be he feels if he shows you too much affection he will be labeled as a clinger.
he might be just bored of you, or he is getting lazy relationships are work bottom line if there is no effort no one cares
Because after the honeymoon period the excitement fades and you start behaving like your normal self.
The average relationship lasts for 3-5 months by the way.
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