She ended things with me a little over a week ago. Did it over the phone and didn't give me much explanation. I really want to talk face to face and just get some closure. I texted her last Sunday and asked if I could come over and talk, she was hesitant at first, but then agreed, but said she was working all week. So I wait the whole week and give her a text last night, no response. So I text her again today just saying "when are you not working" no reply. So I text her again an hour later saying "can you talk to me please" She finally texts me several hours later saying she was at work and to stop pestering her right now.
Would you ever treat an ex this way? I haven literally sent only those two texts today and that's only because I didn't hear from her yesterday. We never fought or anything when we were going out, and I haven't said anything negative or at all to her. I just want to talk for an hour. I'm not even trying to get back together, I just want some closure. So now I don't know if I should just continue to wait for her to text me, or if I should try and text her later tonight? But I'm not asking for much, am I?
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I wouldn't send her another text message. She'll probably feel pressured if you continue to send text message. She knows that you want to talk, so if she really does want to do it, she'll get in touch. But it doesn't sound like she's really up for it.
I know it's unfair if someone dumps you and doesn't really bother to explain why and just leaves you with this huge question mark on your face. It's been done to me as well, and generally the dumper just wants his/her peace and the more you pester them the less likely you are to actually receive a reply.
If I were you, I'd wait a few days, maybe a week, and if she hasn't gotten back to you then, then send another text message, or perhaps even call her.0
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