I wanna see if anyone else feels the same or could even explain these feelings:
I meet guys a lot but all the pieces never fit together. I can't find all I want in a guy..something is always missing. I'm not looking for perfection either. So I've gotten to the point where I just go with it, meaning I'll date a guy I'm not THAT into with NO intention of him being my boyfriend hoping that in the mean time someone I like better comes along. Dating a guy I'm not THAT into makes me feel bad..sometimes, like I'm cheating myself .I've dated guys (IN THE PAST) where the butterflies came in the stomach and the smile was so heartfelt, but as of lately..that feeling isn't there and can't come with a guy I'm not that into, no matter how hard I try and the thing is he is actually a sweet person I just can't like him in that way even though I'm trying.
So my questions are:
1. Can anyone relate to what I'm feeling? [Basically, just being single for a while now..kinda giving up hope of ever finding the right guy & settling for guys I'm not that into]
2. Is it my fault?(because sometimes I think I should just settle for less to break my single status) OR should I keep dating around until I meet the right guy?
Please feel free to share your story if you have similar feelings about being single. I want to hear from others too.
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Yeah I totally get you! Usually the way I say it is dating to date vs dating to date the guy
There are so many guys that they're nice, they're cute but we just don't click
But I'll go out with them for a little while because its like nice to be with someone for a little while but I know it's not going to go very far with them
Sigh when your at that point it always really sucks /:
No it's not your fault, as for looks I'm pretty accepting all I want is someone I can really get along with and I don't think that's too much to ask for lol
I say, why not just have fun with some people while you're waiting to meet the one (: I mean it's likely the one prob won't be waiting around either and also it gets lonely lol
But, it sounds like you're dating guys you have no interest at all in, if that's true then I'd advise against it because you're leading them on and you'll eventually have to break their hearts
Bt if you have some interest, you just don't really click then go for it! Who knows, maybe you'll find out you guys really do click (:1