so there is this guy I am really attracted to and interested in dating. we have hung out a couple times (once in a group friend setting and once just us at his house). the first time we hung out away from the pool hall/bar at our friends house, we both ended up staying the night and spooning/cuddling all night on the couch together. the night I went over to his house I ended up staying the night and we actually had sex together. I text him a few hours after leaving his house the next morning saying I don't know about you but I enjoyed myself last night, he text me about an hour or two later saying so did he and that he didn't wanna get up this morning. we texted a few times. I am usually the first to text him, and sometimes it takes him hours to respond, other times he don't reply until the next day. I can't tell if he has any legit interest in me or not. what do you think?
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Don't get overworked by this, he may be a busy guy or may misplace his phone every now and then. He may not know how to respond to certain things and might just not respond to it at all. He might of been tired and didn't feel like having you over if he was just going to fall asleep. Just don't think that it's a big deal.
OR, he might be nice, but wants just a short fling or something. He might have gone out with another girl, because the relationship doesn't seem serious, it's just sex to him. Honestly, sex right away doesn't seem like it would spark anything for a guy, unless he's desperate.
If you see him more, then watch how he acts around other girls, and if he looks at their butt or breasts then he is more likely to only be in it for the sex. But if he doesn't seem like he's focused on other girls then it might be your fault for giving up sex too easy and that would really ruin your chances of having a serious relationship with him.
Just watch his behavior when around him, and don't over think it.0