We broke up 1.5 years ago. We were in touch, almost daily, in fact. Things had been a bit bumpy ever since we broke up because I had a hard time moving on. A couple of months ago I found him on a dating site. I knew he was on a couple since we broke up, this was a new one though. I was upset and sent a rude text message to him. I've not heard from him since and it doesn't look like he's going to write back ever again. I've sent so many emails over the last couple of months, also text messages.
I don't even care about the dating site (although he's deleted his profile when I sent the rude text), I was upset for 5 min after seeing it.
He didn't even bitch at me or anything, he simply never replied again. I assume he's got me blocked by now and doesn't read my emails. What the hell can I do? I want to be on speaking terms with him again because it's hard to accept he's gone from my life completely. I want nothing more than friendship from him now.
What can I do? Can he really be that mad at me? It feels unreal!
Most Helpful Guy
The first male poster is 100% correct. Leave this guy alone unless you want to find yourself thrown in jail.
Have no contact, at all. When you say you sent him a text because you found he was on a dating site, that admission is troubling, because what you revealed required you to search for his listing and then, after you found it, to become angered enough to act impulsively. If I were advising this male, I would strongly recommend he obtain a restraining order that orders you to have no contact with him at all, by any means. With that order, your continued contact would violate the law, and you would be arrested.
The "male" advice is absolutely correct and is in your best interests. It is incomprehensible that some female said to try to talk to him - that advice is beyond bad. It is, plainly, asinine. And what you want is irrelevant - he doesn't want anything to do with you.
Nothing is more pathetic than a male or female who cannot let go long after a relationship has ended, and who stoops to harassment to fulfill their need for contact, and even negative contact will suffice for these types. You need to seriously look at yourself and figure out why you are continuing to pursue a male who wants nothing to do with you.
Move on. Meet new friends. Volunteer your time to help others so you aren't longer consumed with an issue that is only important to you. You will be much happier. Mark1
Most Helpful Girl
Accept the situation and for what it is; she is no longer a part of your life, talk to friends, family. Re discovers yourself, take a haircut. Do something you always wanted to do.
I miss my ex boyfriend too but I have known and been with myself for a longer time than I was with him. Therefore I will survive and you can too