I'm 22...never had a serious relationship (yes, I know I'm still young...), never been kissed, never really had a "romantic", "memorable" date with a guy. I'm an only child and was born 3 months premature. I also wish I had an older brother...
My dream...as of now...is to finish school, get a secure job, find a guy, date him for awhile (obviously lol), and then settle down and, maybe - hopefully - start a family...four legged children included! =)
I'm not exactly sure why I really want a guy so bad...I'd love to just talk, laugh, wrestle, hang out - go to concerts, out to eat, watch the stars, watch a movie, just cuddle (if that's an option guys...is it?), ride ATVs, scare people with train horns...fun stuff.
I get so...bummed when I see my friends hanging on their guy in public or bragging about him when he's not around... "Oh he's so nice. He made me breakfast. He bought me this...we went here." I sorry, but I get jealous...I keep it all bottled up. =) That's good right? I don't blow up at them for talking about it? lol
I'm wondering how I can snap out of the negative, and turn it into a "Oh that's so nice that your life is PEACHY! Mine is too!"
Any suggestions? Rude comments welcome lol Example. "GROW THE F UP CRAZY LADY!" haha!
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You're not crazy, just love/relationships just don't really work the same way for everyone, some people find it easy to meet people, some don't, there is no right or wrong way to go about finding someone, for all you know, all your friends will spend the next 20 years still looking, while you might meet that one special someone today, tomorrow, in 10 minutes time, that's just the way it works.
My only real advice is that if you want to meet someone, you have to go out to places where people are, so go out more and don't really worry about meeting someone, just go out to have fun and you'll find someone, most likely when you least expect it.1