I am so tired of being alone, I think I am a nice person, I always make sure to ask how the guys day is and make plans for things he likes. They always seem interested at the begining, then when it seems to start getting a little like we could start dating they bail. Then like a month later they are dating someone else. That honestly breaks my heart. I don't know what I do that makes it that guys don't like me. I am so tired of being the nice girl, I always end up broken..
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I know it sucks , has happened to me plenty of times.
The advise I can give to you is "DON"T TRUST YOUR FEELINGS"
Those are our weakness, sadly it's the truth.according to an article,
We logically understand that we won't be killed if a woman/man rejects us, but our brain doesn't seem to realize that yet. Instead the average guy/girl becomes filled with fear and tension and panic... perhaps something most women/men don't really appreciate.
Our dating confidence and success comes from handling our inner battles - fear and panic vs logic and rational thought.
It's easy for me to say "ignore your feelings" and yet they blur our vision and clamp our mouths shut. And hopefully you can become aware of the inner tricks being played out by your nervous system - your feelings can't be trusted.
Think of your emotions like the weather. It just happens and that's life. There's not always some deeper reason for it and it's futile to try to fight it
so be LOGICAL not EMOTIONAL ^_^
good luck :)0
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