So every time and I mean every time I meet a guy the exact same thing happens. Its got to the point where I know its gonna happen even before it does.
The will tell me they like me, tell me they fancy me ask me out on a date or sometimes text for a bit before the date etc. Anyway they either don't get back in touch to arrange the date or they text me for months on end and never take me out on a date then just stop texting or they take me on a few dates then cancel and never get in touch but 9 times out of 10 the following week or so they are in a relationship.
Off the top of my head this has happened 7 times with different lads over the last year or two.
Can anyone shed any light on why they show so much interest then just disappear. Am I just OK till someone better comes along?
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There could be a multitude of reasons of why you are not holding guys interest in you. It could be that you are too nice, unexciting, or not challenging. By challenge, I mean always being available to them, or appearing eager to please(as in frequently agreeing with them.
Are you inquisitive, flirtatious, and comical on dates etc? How soon do you let the guy know that your interested in them? Do your sense of style conform to theirs?0