Hello people, just wanted some opinions on a particular topic that has gotten me very pissed. I'm a black woman and recently had a white guy friend who I was seeing and felt as if we could go beyond friendship to the next level. But he pissed me off when he asked why I liked white guys.. before I could even respond he said" Because they have money." Trust me I was so f***ing pissed that I haven't contacted him back. First of all I like all races, I date who I'm comfortable with & was going to say personality wise, white guys seem to be more understanding and romantic so that's what attracts me to them. But seriously saying that I date them because they have money, just gets me so f***ing f***ing pissed and real annoyed. I'm so independent, got by first job at age 16 & I'm now 20. I have my own apartment & NO my parents or anybody else ain't paying my rent, I AM. I work full-time. I work hard and enjoy my work, being independent teaches you responsibility and there's nothing better than being responsible. It's just sad how black women can be stereotyped this way as gold-diggers. Not everyone's the same you know! I just wanted to get the public's perceptive on this topic. What do you think? I work hard for what I want.
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It's not just black women that are pinned with that. Pretty much any girl that isn't white dating a white guy gets that label except it's usually not thrown on the girl by a white guy. Hell, if a white girl only dates white guys, sometimes people say things about her too.
That's really odd. He must have had past issues or something.5
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