So a guy I'm interested in called me at midnight but my family was asleep and I didn't want to make noise so I didn't pick up. The next day I texted him apologizing for not picking up the call because "i fell asleep"
What would a guy think about that? He hasn't tried calling but texts, short texts.
- He thinks I'm not interestedVote A
- He thinks I'm playing gamesVote B
- He is teasing me by not calling again after I apologizedVote C
- He isn't that interestedVote D
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The best advice I can think to give, is don't let your paranoia influence your actions. I tend to analyze things too deeply, which leads to over-complication and more misunderstanding. Chopping up something into smaller pieces does not make it easier to see. It is a personal struggle of mine so I do understand why you think he may be pulling back for fear you are not interested, (the most common possible scenario which could apply in my opinion). Unfortunately, most males tend to send short and not so well thought out text messages for whatever reason. Just go with it and attempt to get to know him better with friendly conversation until you can truly find out what kind of person he is.1