Soo yes I made a huge mistake when I was 19 and very very very stupid worst mistake of my life I'm 22 now and I am almost back on the good foot I'm on probation for 2 or 3 years more no idea I had it extended to lower my payements.
This is what happened My crazy ex who was on heroine and was bipolar I didn't know he was either pointed a gun @ my head and said If you don't drive me to break into these houses during the summer and right now I'm going to kill you and come after your mother. So I did it b.c this is the time I found out he was crazy etc etc I had enough courage to go to the police station and I got every charge he did but then less b.c I "snitched" and I'm still fighting to fix my record. I've told people in the past no problem but one guy did make me feel like sh*t for it. I still do so how do I tell my new man about my past w.o running him away should I wait for a few months? I'm not a bad person at all I finished cosmetology school, I was a nanny twice, started auto mechanics and now I'm taking classes to be a foster parent if they give me the green light. Do you see me as a bad person or a threat? p.s I will be updating it underneath so please check that.
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you made a mistake, a rather big mistake but it certainly doesn't make you a bad person.
as long as your honest about what happened, and clear about who you are now, a person should be able to accept that. I think there are people who are naturally going to say, "whaaaa!" but a good person understands people make mistakes and judges not on who you were but who you are and want to be.
good luck with all of this!0