My parents were and are very wonderful. However, I never saw affection in my family, I never saw my parents kissing or hugging and they rarely kissed or hugged me. I always had an incredible need to give and receive affection, but also found it very difficult to get close to people and open up to a relationship.
I met a great guy 4 months ago. He is super cute, sweet, wonderful, loving, smart, hot, sexy, everything. He doesn´t know he is my first boyfriend because we agreed when we first met that the past is not important.
The problem is that he is VERY loving, he loves cuddling me, holding me, kissing me, snuggling up against me, holding my hand, etc...
I LOVE this, but most of the time, while he is doing this, I try so hard to hold back tears. It gets me really emotional because I never really received affection before. He gave me my first kiss, he was the first guy to hold my hand, the first person to hug me for more than a second...
and I just get too emotional and I know that one of these days I´m not going to suceed and I´m going to cry all over him. If it happens, what should I tell him? Won´t he be freaked out?
Guys, what do you think about this?
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Sounds like you really need a sweet, caring and loving guy like him. I think that if he's like that, that you have actually nothing to worry about. He will take care of you.
You should tell him the truth. When a guy has all those characteristics you mentioned he will understand you.
Take it from me, because I also like to cuddle, hold my girlfriend, her hand, just be close to her, and I listen and try to understand what she tells me and I always try to make her feel comfortable so she doesn't have to be embarrassed about anything. I mean, I don't like it if my girl cries because it makes me sad, but I'll always take care of her tears. And your guy sounds like he will do just that.1