So I guess I have been a little crazy with the texting but it's only because he doesn't text me back sometimes. He'll text me back 10 min or hours later. He tells me he's always tired or hanging with the boys. I just feel like we haven't had anytime to get to know each other or really communicate because every time we get in the car, he blasts loud music, we make out, and then we go hang out somewhere where we can't actually talk. We also work at the same place too and now that we're dating, I'm kind of leery of the other girls because I don't want anyone flirting with him, however, they flirt anyway and I can't do anything about it because we don't want people to know we're dating because they will try even harder to try and get him because it's like once they know you're dating, they try and get in between you. So immature. Anyway he also liked another girl at work but she didn't like him but if she knew we were dating, she'd get jealous and try and get him back (which is what I suspect might happen soon). What should I do?
Most Helpful Girl
First, play it cool with the texting, that makes you look needy, clingy and overbearing. He'll respond when he feels like it ... But then so should you. Don't drop everything just to text him back. You have a life outside of him right? Don't forget those people. Second, if he's really into you, people at work aren't going to be able to break you up ... Because he's into YOU, not them. Same thing with the flirting, a little jealousy is OK ... But freaking out if someone flirts with him goes back to the clingy, needy, overbearing point again. So my guess is he is avoiding you because you keep blowing up his phone, so he's loosing interest, because you're acting clingy and are too available.0