You are dating but not official with a girl you met online. You are still maintaining an active profile on the site, she has deleted hers. You speak every day and are into her.
Then you find out she created a fake profile to talk to you and figure out your intention with other girls online. The girl hasn't been in a relationship in a long time and is just insecure.
If she pleaded her case to you and promised not to do it again, would you take her back or would you brush her off and never speak to her again?
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Well, she's not my girlfriend, and not official, but regardless, it would tick me off. See, as far as I'm concerned, it's a warning of things to come. If she's that insecure that she needs to screw around and play mind games on me even before we're official, how am I to know she's not going to pull more stupid, immature and insecure crap like that again? Sure, she could apologize, and she could plead her case, but frankly at the end of the day, it's just words. People can promise the moon, but they can't really deliver. So, no, sorry, but the trust is gone.
I've been through way too many crazy, immature, bullshit, insecure, mindfucking and jealous relationships in the past, and what I have learned from them is that they almost always get worse. This is indeed a deal breaker. It's not worth the headache. Not worth knowing that she can't trust me. Not worth knowing I can't trust her. It's not worth looking over my shoulder. Not worth having to prove myself to her emotional baggage and tangled ball of neuroses. Not worth having to second guess what's going to be part of her stupid and immature games.
So yes. Yes, this is definitely a deal breaker.0