So there's a guy I really like, and we've been writing to each other like a couple of crazy teenagers for exactly a month today. The thing is that despite our interaction we've only met up four times (only one of those being a date, the rest being random meet-ups). He just invited me out for a second date, but without mentioning when/where since he claims to have a very crazy schedule. The invite is just hanging overhead. We haven't kissed or held hands beyond the very basic greetings.
Usually a guy who's interested would have at least made a pass at me. Not sure what's going on here -- or if all the correspondence is supposed to represent something by way of his (romantic) interest, in which case I'm just not picking up on his interest and wonder what's taking him so long to get around to at least the first kiss...
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"I've got a girl on the line. I can reel her in anytime."
Maybe he has a secret 2nd life with a wife and kids or something.
Take the initiative and tell him you think he's full of hot air, that he needs to stop playing Brett Favre with his weiner pics and show you the real thing.
Just teasing. But after a month, you can and should be pushy with the guy. He'd respect you for it. I'm not saying he doesn't or any the above is what's going on. But you have my permission to tell him to fish or cut bait.2