I met this guy who is 25 and he has his life straight, has a good job and is basically independent. I'm 20 and I'm still going to school but I have a pretty good job as well. In the beginning he tried putting me down because of the fact that I am young and I am not ready to settle down. I didn't hold back in telling him how I feel about his negative comments towards me. We went out on our first date and he mentioned and showed me a picture of his ex. I had no intention in knowing more about her and I reserved my comment to myself , especially after the fact that he called her a vulgar name. He told me he was testing me when he showed me his ex gfs picture. (I don't know how) Although it did make me feel a bit uncomfortable. The second date happened and prior to this he was acting like he did miss me and such but that could be all talk. Anyways we went out on our 2nd date, he took me to a restaurant and after a while he told me that a girl that works there (and was there at the moment) he use to talk to her and dated her. It was awkward for me especially when the female saw us both. I didn't mention anything to him about it, again I reserved my comments to myself. After that date he wanted to hang out another time and he set up the date. The day of the date he did text me and I replied but the conversation was dead afterward. I did call him to confirm and I didn't get any reply. I left it at that and I haven't heard from him since.
He did express himself on how bad he wanted me every time we saw each other or through text but I ignored that because I wasn't going to give him any s** anytime soon. I don't know how it went to having complete interest in me to having none. I don't want to say he only wanted th9ing only but still. He was immature and I did expect something more out of a 25 year old but oh well. Sometimes having expectations about something or someone can lead to disappointment. What do you guys think ?
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He is playing you like a child and it is good that you see this. He got your attention by putting you down, women love to fight and prove something, it does not matter what and you fell for it.
Bring up other girls is just plain bad taste, he possibly farts at the table and think that is funny. If he blew you off because you will not put out, makes your choices easier but it is still a game.
He will come back. You think he has his act together, all that glitter is not gold.
Let him go.