It became more socially acceptable, which made BOTH sides more open to the idea. Keep in mind with the cougar thing it's not just the fact that a guy might go after a younger woman, but also the fact many women may actually entertain the idea of dating a younger guy without the same type of worries of how it would be viewed.
I don't think it's a fad though. Things just gradually become more acceptable as our culture progresses.
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I doubt it is a fad. It may become more accepted and less discussed, but I don't think it will go away. I think it's a function of changing societal norms coupled with the fact that older women are generally more sexually mature and less inhibited...more on par with younger men in that respect. But generally just for fun, since younger men are less mature emotionally and not as compatible with older women in that regard.
guys do that to everyone on dating sites. most guys view those as hook up sites. I don't know why guys like older girls and the same for girls liking old guys...no thanks
i think that show started it, I don't know why though it is quite demeaning..
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Lots of guys are into older women (mainly for sex I presume) and I don't think it was ever really a fad, its been around for a long time. I'd take a guess and say older women generally know what they want, and they are not afraid to go after what they want either as oppose to a lot of young girls who are unsure of themselves and sit around waiting for men to make all their decisions for them. Other than this I have no experience with older women and limited experience women in my age range (but I've come across a lot of immature girls though) so that all I can really answer.
I honestly think it's normal for young men to want a more experienced lover who's body is fully mature. Every teen had that dream at one point. I find it creepy once a man is older and wants a teen so I can see why some women feel strongly against it.
I like that older girls are less obsessive. They are more busy so they don't have time to focus all their energy feeling like you're their entire world. It cuts a lot on stupid drama.
They also got down from their pedestal and understand they are past their prime and more humble and interesting because of it (not all, some will remain vain and clueless until they die all alone)It's not a fad, it's been around forever. Even Benjamin Franklin (yes, THAT Benjamin Franklin) was openly vocal about his sexual interest in older women.
who says its a fad?
never even seen cougar town, but I love cougars D:
you are very pretty for your age omgGirls at my age or a little younger are attractive for me. Mature women are often less inhibited and sometimes exude a special sex appeal. That excited some guys.
Older women are less expensive to date and easier to dump.
The "cougar fad" has been around for thousands of years. And, while it is not for everyone, it will never go away.
Lol definitely not a fad. Women want younger guys because they're better looking and can last longer in bed.
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