our fight was dumb. he cancelled dinner plans with my parents to help our chuch band out. he felt he couldn't tell me because I'd be mad he did that instead of eating with my parents so he didn't tell me. I still expected him to come over and just hang out. I got off work that day and called him. I wasn't aware he was loading the equipment and he answered the phone and said he was busy and hung up. I got mad and sent him a message asking where he was. he never answered and 2 hours later I was aggravated and sent another message saying I was mad and that he better tell me where he was and explain himself for hanging up on me. right before I went to sleep I called him and he answered, he told me where he'd been and I remembered about the church which I thought was next weekend. needless to say he was furious at me for texting him a mean text message. I did over react, but he made it out in his mind that I was mad at him for helping the church instead of seeing me. I tried telling him that's not why I was mad, I just didn't know where he was and he could have told me he was doing that and it would have never happened. any way its a week later and he has barely talked to me. last time I talked to him he said he just didn't want to see me because he was still mad. he's never done this before so I was thinking it was something he wouldn't get over so I asked him if we should break up he said no he didn't want that. but that was a few days ago and he hasn't talked to me since. is this normal to have these long drawn out fights and hardly talking but still expecting me to be his girlfriend when he gets is panties out his butt? I don't like this at all and told him that but he had nothing to say. any guys ever do this, or should I end our year and a half relationship?
Hardly talking and mad at me for a week, says he doesn't want to break up?
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Haha that 3rd to last line was funny. No you shouldn't break up over a misunderstanding. What you should do is tell him, I understand that you are mad but I feel we were and still are miscommunicating. Why don't you tell me what is really bothering you and I'll do the same. I want to understand so we can fix this. I love you and I don't want to fight anymore.0
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