I have never had a boyfriend. Ever. but I have had a few, I guess, flings with some guys that I really liked. So there is this one guy who has liked me for four years now, and I've already told him I don't like him twice because he just gets so serious so fast whenever I show any interest in him. I decided I have 6 months left in HS, so I might as well give him a chance. We went on a date and by the end of the date, he was sweet, and he kissed me. I don't want to hurt him again, and I'm so confused about my feelings. I like him but I don't. I like how he treats me, very respectfully and he really likes me. But I don't like how he is so overprotective and already starting to dictate my friends. By the end of the date, he was begging me "Be mine, please, just be my girlfriend." He is so sweet and I don't want to hurt him and I like who he is when he is just chill and laid back. But I don't want someone so super clingy as my first boyfriend. Should I give him another date? I already said we need to not become boyfriend/girlfriend just from the first date when he asked me. I don't want to be basically married already, and that is the feeling I get from him.
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Yes, tell him you're soon going to be out of school and you donn't want to be tied to someone at thi stage of your life. You can still hang out, but no official boyfriend/girlfriend declarations, and he has no right to tell you what to do with other people...
He's just immature, this shouldn't be a major hang-up for you.0