So I'm a fairly popular guy. When I walk into a room, I make a strong positive impression on everybody. I dress with style, have an amazing sense of humor (according to a bunch of people, it's one of my strongest qualities), and I'm a very intelligent person in comparison to most my peers. I'm confident but I'm not a show off. I'm kind, laid back, and have been told my demeanor makes me "very approachable". Looks wise I'm no model, but I've been told I'm not ugly/average, and I know I'm not repulsive or anything.
Yet, I've never had a girlfriend, never been on a date (or at least, gone out on what I thought was a date), hell I've never even been kissed. Thing is, it's not like my life has been filled with one rejection after another or anything like that. I've had women interest in me that I just didn't feel the same about, I've asked out women who genuinely were already in a relationship, and a couple times I spent a long time hung up on 2 women that weren't interested. It's getting to the point thought where I feel like this can't just be bad luck, and maybe there's something deeper going on?
I managed to tell one friend I was very close to and she outright didn't believe me/pulling a prank on her when I told her. I admitted I was just joking cause I honestly felt kind of embarrassed.
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Imo, you simply need to approach more girls. You remind me of a college buddy of mine that said himself that he "aims to have a 100% success rate with girls".
Simply put, he didn't get as many dates as he wanted.
Because he was playing it too "safe". He would only approach girls that he knew was a sure thing, such as friends of friends that he's known for many months or YEARS before making a move.
Funny as it sounds, you not being rejected ENOUGH is probably the problem. Sounds crazy, but let me explain why. You simply aren't approaching enough women. In fact, from reading this, you seem like the type that likes the girl to come up to you. This, although you seem like an attractive dude demeanor-wise and physically, is VERY LOW ODDS to find a girl that you click with if you are letting the girls approach you, instead of the other way around.
No joke...I know a guy in college that got plenty of dates, it seemed like if he wanted to go out ANYWHERE, he'd find a girl to say yes. BUT...he got rejected. Alot.
He said he approaches about 3-4 girls a DAY if he wanted a date for whatever reason.
So get out there, risk rejection, and go find that girl that is your match! :)2