Dating a girl/guy with kids, what would you do?

So lets say you go out on a few dates with the girl or guy and they tell you that before you two get any more serious, you outta know that they have a kid (under age 5) and its a big responsibility and the other parent, while kinda a bum, is still wanting to be in the kid's life.

What would you do? Considering the other dates have gone pretty darn well.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I would stop seeing them

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What Girls Said 5

  • How much do you like that person ? Where are you at emotionally? Do you just want to date people casually or are you looking to really hit it off with someone and get deeply involved? Do you like children, do you want children, do you have children of your own? That person mentioned the child/children and the ex so you know what you're getting into, not regretting it later, etc. Good luck and hope you take the time to consider all the questions above :)

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  • Well if it is mere Dating,then a NO!

    But if Love, its a big Yes

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  • Having sex, yeah.. Dating/relationship wise, no.

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  • Someone with kids comes with a lot of baggage,it all depends on whether you want to put up with things such as having to deal with their ex partner being in their life,the child being a priority. If you really think you can put yourself in that situation then go ahead,they could be a great person,but you don't want to get too involved if you're unsure.

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  • Depends on the guy really. Is he worth it? Some guys are worth putting up with extra baggage most are not.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Nope. Other people's kids are a deal breaker.

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