Would you enter in a relationship with a girl that has sex in the first date?

Or would you consider her a whore?

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  • A whore is someone who's getting paid to have sex.

    If she's willing to have sex with me then and there, it's green light from here on. There is a common saying among women, "I don't date/screw/marry just anyone." This simply means that on the first initial 5-second contact, she had determined if a man is a yes type or a no type. A yes type gets laid. The no types are found wanting.

    Which simply means if I have cleared all the safety barriers enough for her to have sex with me and not the other fifty-seven guys, then it should mean something positive. Few things worse than letting some bitch tell a particular decent man he is not sex material, only to watch her pick up random guys every Friday night doing the shag nasty with them.

    If a woman feels good about a particular man and wishes to skip the troublesome stuff, sex is the answer.

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What Guys Said 24

  • Yes.

  • It would not be an outright NO for me. It would depend on her other qualities.

    But then , I'm not 16 anymore and when people age they don't hesitate as long before coming to sex when meeting someone new.

    If a younger girl said she wanted to have sex on our first meeting there would never be a first meeting. (kinda protecting her)

  • I once had a girlfriend a while ago, I made her wait until the third date. As far as considering someone a "whore", that all depends on the guy. I didn't lose respect for my girlfriend at the time, but that's me and I was in my situation - that doesn't mean that he'll hold respect for you if you decide to have sex.

    If the girl has sex on the first date, no telling where else she's been on other first dates. That being said, no telling where her ex boyfriends have been either. First date sex can be a very bad thing, and a warning sign (whore).

    I'd make him wait for at least the 3rd date if I were you, at least. Don't forget protection!

  • If you want to take it slow, than you should tell her that...

    You are not forced to do what ever she wants, as well as she isn't forced to do anything you want.

    If you love her, but want some love in return, than you'll have to figure that problem all by your self or just talk to her... Just be gentle and not too agrecive on that subject, but it is always nice to speak to her...

    good luck

  • FWB is a type of relationship.

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What Girls Said 5

  • I don't think the girl would be a whore if they'd already been friends or known each other for a long time. It's just another double standard though... it always seems more acceptable if a guy has sex right away. No matter the person's sex, I think people should wait.

  • Most likely, they will.

  • You do what you choose to do. Do not modify your behavior in fear of approval.

    He may or may not. There is no telling.

  • Every guy is different. My husband and I had sex on the first date.

  • If he really cared that wouldn't matter