I talked to a guy for several months, however we met two years ago. We finally became official (even Facebook official by him). He ended up having to move and came to visit me for four days. We were doing fine while he visited, however, the night before he left he was texting another girl. In the message it says
her: you know how I feel about you kissing other girls
him: but I'm coming down to see only you
at this point I got really upset and confronted him about it but he yelled at me and treated the situation like I was being overly jealous! He refused to let me see the message itself. He even called me a jealous person and broke up with me and took me off as his girlfriend. We used to talk every day but we have barely talked since. I was supposed to visit him in a couple months and have even bought a ticket to do so. He offered to hang out, but what should I do in this situation? We haven't talked for days including Christmas.
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What is in a Facebook status these days?
It sounds to me like he's in some sort of intimate open relationship with this girl.
You said he broke up with you for being overly jealous? You had every right to be jealous and he gave you absolutely no reason to believe you were overreacting. But, the fact that he removed that Facebook status, and broke up with you means that he isn't obligated to keep in touch with you.
I think you should return the ticket and forget about hanging out with him. Don't talk to him unless he talks to you...if he was worthy of your time he would've at least said Merry Christmas..
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