This guy and I hung out a bunch of times over a month and a bit. Then we hooked up (not sex) and I hadn't heard from him since. I texted him basically saying wtf, and he apologized for being MIA for the past couple weeks, and that his parents were getting a divorce. We never spoke after that conversation, and now he's on vacation And he just messaged me saying we should hangout when he gets home. What do you think? The last time he texted me/we hungout was 3 weeks ago. I don't see why he couldn't contact me over 3 weeks.
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Perhaps, he's not interested anymore.
Better to drop him. He maybe struggling through painful problems, but at least, a second or two, to text you to inform you about his situation or more, call you to see how you're doing.
In this situation, perhaps, he' seeing another girl now, and he's using you as a net when he and the girl will break up.
However, if you still trust him, maybe the wait is worth it when he comes back.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but presence makes it stronger. = )1