I signed up pretty much before I went home for the holidays, must be about 10 days ago and didn't log in since then.
Now I did log in and I had 35 messages in my inbox last night, 38 this morning. You would think people have better things to do over Christmas but appearently not.
It's just a whole lot to respond to and in some of them I'm really not interested. Would it be rude not to reply to them? I mean even if I did, I'd be leading them on, right?
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I would say its acceptable not to reply. Men massively outnumber women on these sites and most women are inundated with messages. The men won't be that hurt or think badly of you, they are probably used to getting ignored by most the women they message.
I got less than 38 unsolicited messages in a year lol.0