I usually like the really shy, short, conservative and romantic type of girls that are OK with being treated like girls. I like to make the decisions and treat the girls I date well. If a girl doesn't want me to cook for her or pay for her stuff, I feel like she's too independent for me. I'm a big tall, stupid and quiet guy, and usually prefer girls that are OK with me being a bit clumsy and foolish. Bad at talking to most girls, so usually focus on working out and working at my job doing programming or teaching Japanese to these kids, since I lived in Japan for 4 years back during the military days.
Have only had sex with one girl that I dated for 4 years, and we only stopped dating because something really bad happened. It took awhile to accept what happened and try to move on, so I'm hoping to find someone like her again. I just hope I can find another girl like her someday.
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I'd say something is only considered shallow when your main/only criteria are surface-based qualities (looks, money, etc). You're describing personality characteristics as well, so I'd think not. The only problem for all people lies in being able to attract the person you desire. Many set their sights too high, and ask for someone with more positive/desirable qualities than they themselves have. Nothing wrong with it, but you're unlikely to get such a person since we're all looknig for the best we can get. If you feel you're equally matched in some way to the girl you seek, you'll find another girl eventually.1