Why do certain guys date girls who say they will only have sex in a relationship when the guy just wants casual sex? Why not move on?
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Why are there people who rob stores? Cause they have high desires that outweigh the consequences, or they need it. Same sh*t here. One is lust, the other is sex addiction.
Lets see, f*** some chick, maybe she gets hurt, turns into a mental case, assuming her family is stable and she was raised to hold her own body in higher esteems, or is she the kind who'll f*** any dude cause he can sweet talk her? Lol, it's sad. A dude looking to get laid isn't going to invest a bunch of money, or time into a girl, he might text a lot of bs, or say a lot of bs, lie, and more, but those are signs to be aware of.
People are people. We all have a weak point, but in this society we are raised learning to be self considering vs giving it.
Does it hurt more to use a girl, or does it benefit the guy?
Well the consequences: Rep for using women, unless he can randomly talk to women he never met, and doesn't need to network too much,which in that case, ignore the rep issue. There is the chance of an STD, but condoms aren't that expensive. Might get beat up by her "Boy posse" who she calls on when hurt, which may or may not end well for him or those f***ing with him, assuming this guy has some connections (gang) or just in general.
He gets sex, and can walk away with not having lost anything. The woman suffers more than the guy. Men don't work the same way as women. The sooner people realize to accept those differences, the better off they are.
A girl can sleep around like a guy and be "equal" in that regard, but their future relationships will suffer-not because of men viewing them negatively, but she has no need to feel close to them, or stay around cause she knows she can find another dude to do whatever she wants (manipulation). It's very very detailed,complicated, and a vicious cycle.
I've ran into a lot of broken women out there, my ex's are sad examples. I quit expecting anything from women, anything I consider the traits of a lady to be there. Having a vagina, and using it, don't mean your a "lady". There's a lot more to it. Traits long lost in the corruption of the media. Slabs of meat are all you'll be seen as, participating for reasons of "Equality" or simply "Because you can", ain't justified.