This guy stood me up. I texted him that day an no answer. He asked me out. But since date time he has been silent he only answered my merry Christmas text, so a few days later,I sent him a how are you doing text but nothing. Basically the text I send him he rarely answers. So I just got fed up and removed him off my fb and my phone. I just feel like I am a huge *****- but he ignored me I tried to reach out to him. I really did like him, but I chose to repsect over future love this time:/ and I don't know if that was right. Was I in the wrong to do that. I just think I deserve someone who answers, and actually cares about me.
single cat lady for life. I mean he still has my number so if he cares he can still text me, but I doubt it.
Was I wrong to remove him?
I didn't run after him either. I texted him three time total ever. The Christmas one I sent to everyone on my phone. He just happened to still be on it, and then I texted him once after he stood me up
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I agree. If a guy is interested he puts forth his best effort in the beginning if that is his best...well then you don't want to be around for the worst. Personally, even if he wasn't interested after he thought about it he should have been a reall man and called you...at least with an excuse. It's common courtesy as a human being. It says a lot about a person. I can respect a man more that can face the music regardless because it's the right thing to do.
He obviously doesn't deserve your attention...and like you said if he is interested he has your number. I wouldn't waste my time on him...especially being 21. You have a whole bunch of living to do!
I'm proud of you for respecting yourself. It doesn't mean you have to be mean or unfriendly to him if he does call...just that you aren't putting any more energy into it then you get out.
Happy New Year! Don't feel bad at all!0