I am going to be a Doctor in the next 6years.I start school next August. I have been seeing this guy I am crazy about since 2010 but I have concealed my feelings because at the time he had a girlfriend and I respected that.
I am currently employed as a Pharmacist and I am making tons of money more than him and is older than him by one year. He works at the airport directing planes.
I know my parents will have a hard time accepting him. He is also shy and timid. But I have a feeling he is the one he is different in many ways. should I continue or just forget it. I do not want to hurt him
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oooo dilemna dilemna...One I am sure I will never have. Kudoos to you for having a good job and working hard on your career. If there is nothing wrong in the relationship why break up. You parents will have a hard time because why? He doesn't make as much as you? They think he should aspire to more? Happiness is the bottom line as I am sure you have learned the moral to many hollywood movies is.
You are still so young with many years of life ahead of you not to mention 6 years of school. I think being with someone that you enjoy to be with and find special is a great thing to have. Maybe you might be a good thing for him...or he for you. We are all here to touch each others lives in some way. I would play you hand...don't fold now...otherwise you will always be thinking about coulda' shoulda' woulda'...and there is no solution to that.
If you think you will cave to your parents wishes and that is your concern then...maybe spare him some heartache...but you may always wonder...0