I have a problem. I just had my first kiss this past January, and since then, I have kissed 11 guys. I don't know why, but I'm honestly super physical for a girl. Just, is it bad that I am? Like, I don't plan on having sex or anything, I just like making out. And lately it has been with some of my guy friends, no longer just guys that I meet that like me. I just, I can't get a boyfriend and I like the feeling I get when I kiss someone, but I don't want to turn into 'that girl'. So, is it wrong?
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There's nothing wrong about, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Guys kiss as many girls as they want - sometimes more than 3 or 4 in a single night - and no one says ANYTHING about them.
Our society can be quite stupid and ignorant sometimes. Don't let what other people think bother you so much, especially if you don't think there's anything wrong with what you're doing.
Later on, if you find someone who really cares about you, they're not going to be bothered about how many guys you've kissed, been with, or even have sex. It's not going to matter. The only thing they'll care about is the right now.
Guys will sometimes say that they want a virgin who hasn't been with anyone yet, but those are losers who have yet to know what love is.1