waiting until the right person comes along?
So many people I see date the first person who will date them. It doesn't matter if they're complete opposites and everyone and their dog can tell them the relationship will eventually fail.
Girls turn blind eyes to everything their guy does that bothers them and say "that can be changed!" Men do this too!
WHY?! Why am I a "bitch" for being "too picky" and waiting for someone who shares the same qualities as me?
It seems guys who want to date me only for my looks then try to change my personality into what suits them.
WHY NOT WAIT FOR THE RIGHT PERSON?!?!?!
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BECAUSE SOMETIMES THEY CAN TAKE A LOT OF TIME TO ARRIVE !
*cough* yelling makes my throat hurt..
I was kidding. Sort of. I mean, I totally agree with you and, because of that, I had mentally prepared myself to stay alone for a long time (until I was 30/32/36 ... ) , and a virgin during all that time(I wanted to sleep with someone I cared for too...)... I had given up actually looking for someone, because I didn't had the desire to stay with someone I had no real connection with just "because", or because they wanted to date me or because I didn't want to stay alone, whatever...
I knew the right one would come. I just stopped being anxious about it.
...a couple of years later, I found my current boyfriend and I couldn't be happier :D !
... people just desperately try to believe that everything they have is everything they were looking for because waiting sucks, finding out that you're actually NOT FINDING the one person you want to find sucks too, and being lonely can as well play a part in this too - because being lonely sucks and, for some, being "not lonely" is the solution - I believe in that saying that goes "Better alone than with bad company" (I don't know the English equivalent), but, for many people, that's not how it goes and that's just how they are...
For me, I'd rather wait all my life for prince charming than getting old worrying about frogs.. But some people look at frogs and see them as frogs... but wish they were princes. so they end up with frogs and try to make it work as if they were their "meant other half", just because it's easier than facing the real truth that he has not yet arrived..
In the mean time, he arrives and leaves because the princess is busy putting crowns on the little frog's heads... or they arrive and the princesses are so used to frogs they see the prince's skin as if it were green...
I don't really know; but not everyone is a dreamer like I am (And I dream that dreams come true when you're brave enough to just have them... so far, that's coming true ^^ ), or like you seem to be... so they don't really expect they'll find a prince, just the right frog... then they turn into "frog-esses" too... that's life.
some are lucky, some are not. some settle, some fight. some are happy without trying, others try and cannot be.
And, at the same time, cats are awesome because they only care about their kingdom, food, litter box and sleeping 16 hours a day. I wish I were a cat somedays, but it's good to be human and be able to suffer, so I can be happy too.
people shouldn't give up. I think that's the main problem, and I won't put this in caps 'cause my throat still hurts a bit...0