Guys usually really show an interest in me at first.. They can tell that I get asked out often, but I'm selective (not so much shallow) about who I go on a date with.. I won't go on a date with someone who might be a great guy but I'm not attracted to because I know that I'll likely hurt him. I'm a "challenge" girl.. But the thing is, I don't want to play games I really want love in my life.. I don't sleep with a guy to soon.. They tell me how attractive they find me and have a twinkle in their eye when they look at me.. I'm a fun, sweet, witty, playful authentic person. After I've been on about 3 dates with a guy I start to really like him.. I want him to call me everyday (I don't tell him this) and get disappointed when I got 2+ days when I don't here from a guy so I write them off or blow it at this point.. Is this normal? I haven't been in a serious relationship for 2 years now and I really miss it..
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Sounds normal to me. When I really like someone, they are everything to me and I would want to make all the time for them. 'Busy' is always an excuse because how much time does one short text takes? Couple of seconds perhaps. That is shorter than the time it takes them to check their email while at work. I don't expect to hear from the guy every day either, but disappearing for 2+ days is quite a long time if you care about the person.
It is also good that you are selective because what is the point of dating when there are no attraction? Those guys could make good friends perhaps, but a boyfriend is more than just someone that other people consider a great person.1