A girl who rejected me a while ago sent me a new year text message & now we are texting again. This was kind of unexpected since we had stopped talking to each other the past months. I havn't seen her either.
And since the follow-up texts involve teasing.. I don't know what to think of it, it's odd.. just odd. The new years text combined with the other texts. It feels like the rejection never happened. But I'm sure we both know it did though.
I just don't know is she saw this as an opportunity to start talking again or maybe I'm reading into it too much & she is just being friendly.. heck I even wondered for a moment if she still had my number when she acted kinda cold.
She pretty much already knew I liked her a lot & wanted to get to know her better some time before she backed out. I realized she was maybe giving me the run around. I wanted to talk, she didn't really feeled like talking that day. I really tried though. She remained friendly & replied to me but I kinda felt she was avoiding the topic herself. So I let it be.. I never got a decent answer. I figured she would have if she really wanted to & so the dreadful rejection kicked in. This one really stung though.
At first it didn't make much sense to me. We used to be very friendly/teasing, joking & flirting in person & texting, yet... she backed out so now I don't trust my own judgement with her anymore.
I'm trying to not to make a big deal out of it. I have moved on but I would be lying if I said I don't think about her alot. So there is that little voice inside my head that tells me she maybe still wants to talk. I don't know how I should approach it from here on though. For one.. I don't think I have it in me to call her, let alone bring it up by text..
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She likes you! If she is bothering to text you...unless she is really bad...you have been on her mind! She is probably hoping that you ask again...maybe you caught her off guard and she didn't expect that you liked her...now she has rethought it and is curious/interested. I think she is encouraging you by being friendly. Personally, if I really rejected a guy I would not text him or do anything to give him an impression of interest. This shows that she likes you and wants to know you better. Just be friendly and ask for something low pressure like coffee...be cool and funny and confident! Good luck!0