This guy..well, we chat sometimes but not too often because I suppose we have busy schedules at school. Maybe around every 6 weeks or so. We don't study in the same school anymore because he went to study overseas. Before he left though, he confessed his feelings for me. That was...9 months ago.
Whenever he's here for his break, he would always text me and let me know he's back home but he never asks me out. So I'm not really sure if he's just being friendly or something?
Oh and, most of the time, I leave the first message during our conversations, which makes me even more confused because why wouldn't he want to start it if he's a bit interested? Though I usually go offline for a while after I leave the message and he always waits until I go online again so we could chat.
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I guess he thinks that you're seeing someone else now because he's been gone from your life for a long time. Or perhaps, you've rejected him 9 months ago, and you still haven't change your feelings for him that's why he can't take the risk of asking you out for fear of embarrassment.
There are way to find out if a guy is serious about you. He spends his time with you, he wants to know more about you on how you were raised, your childhood, your dreams, your passions and interest. He also wants to hang out always with you, and always find the time to be with you.0
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