I dated a guy 11 years ago (I was 27 and he was 30). I broke up with him due to a personal situation, not another guy and there was never another girl (with him). We had a great relationship. Ten years went by and we both met up with a mutual friend at the same time. There was a lot of passion that still exist between both of us. We did spend the night together and began texting over the next few months. We do not live in the same state. The texting died down and I learned he was in a relationship. Then a few months ago he started texting again (and his relationship has ended). Very sweet text. We met again over New years and had a great night. Then the following day we were suppose to meet up again but he cancelled. I did get an apology text and it said it was great to see you, maybe you can come to visit me in the state he lives. It bothered me so I was a little stand-offish. Now, it has been 4 days and I have not heard from him. Should I totally back off and leave it alone? What is going on with him? Or should I text him?
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I would leave the effort up to him, if he is into you, he will make it obvious and put in the required effort, if he doesn't, then you were good for a short time thing, but his interest has wondered and you no longer have his full attention, someone else has it,x0