This guy is trying to steal my girlfriend from me What do I do? Should I talk to him leave it alone or what?

My girlfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks we went but we broke up because she didn't realize her true feelings we were skyping a few days ago and this guy she went out with that hurt t her text trying to start over. She told me about it and said before we went out some nights she used to cry and inside she loves him but loves me. She said it would be wrong to go back to someone who hurt her so bad and the fact she loves me. Then she says I don't like choosing I said why would you even think about that. She said doesn't know just loves me so much and this guy hurt her. I said you're with me then got quiet.She forwarded me a message telling him We can only be friends and that's It unless something happens with my current relationship.. I really love the guy I'm with and he's never hurt me and you did I'm not dumping him for you..sorry. He said OK but then while we were on Skype she told me he was flirting with her she didn't flirt back just said lol.Then she asked is it possible to 3 way Skype I said I don't think so but the fact she thought about it made me sad. I told her I truest her not to do anything and she said I would hope so. So we talked on Skype a little more went to bed. The next morning I sent a message saying I'm sorry I'm acting like this but I'm jealous he guy had his chance and even though he knows were going out he's still flirting and trying to get with you. And the fact you considered skying with him hurt even worse I don't want to lose you to anyone he hurt you so bad I'm not saying I don't want you to not text him but if you do it will rekindle old feeling and he will try to get you back anyway he can. She sent a text later saying I love you and I would never hurt you like that I've hurt you once and I'm not letting that happen again. Then said I love you more than any one or anything. The next day she sent a message saying no I'm not doing that we love each other a lot and I'm not hurting him. So I said you sent the wrong message she said sorry and said he was trying to ask her to Skype and she said no because I don't want her to do that. I said not trying to be an a**hole but why does he keep going she said because he likes me like you like me..hes fighting for me..I asked can you tell him I said to stop she said yea but you're being overly envious. I don't know why she said that becuase she told me in the past the only way she gets jealous if I talk to like old exs or something which I don't and she gets really jealous its like she's not considering how I feel even though I know this is hard for her. Its like the way she's words stuff seem like she's considers it. ater that night we were talking on the phone in the back I could hear the Skype call noise kept saying damn a**hole I asked what's wrong? she said he keeps calling. He stopped a day then called 5 in the morning. she seemed sad I said sorry I'm jealous. Said its fine if the world was perfect she could have us both but its not so she lives everyday hoping it will be perfect.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm not going to lie, I'm not going to read all of that, So I'll be honest, , any guy who is trying to make you look like a bad guy in your girlfriend's eyes obviously likes her and wants her.

    So you gotta confront him and tell him to back off and learn his place, He's her friend, and your her boyfriend.

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What Girls Said 2

  • you need her to say who she likes and tell him to back off or she has to step up to him and tell him she is with you and he has to back off as its ruining your relationship with her

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  • She is being so wishy washy. I think you can love many people but you can only be IN love with one. She doesn't seem too committed to either of you. Probably a maturity issue as well as a fear of getting hurt on her part. I'm sorry.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Leave it alone, if she leaves you for that other guy them let her go.

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