There's this girl I met and really liked first, but later I discovered she had a boyfriend already. So I laid low a while but we still talked. Within that time I met another girl and we hit it off, but not as much as the first one. The first girl broke up with her boyfriend and fast forward we're now dating. I still like the other girl (she doesn't know I'm dating another girl) but not as much as the first,what can I do there?
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Do you want your relationship with the first girl to work? Do you love her? Are you just wondering what you missed out on, or wondering what life is like outside of the relationship? Do you honestly WANT girl one (aka you're not just afraid of ending up alone, or using her - do you love her?)? If so: Figure out what the first girl is lacking that the second girl gives you. What do you desire from the second girl? Why isn't the first girl enough? That's something you need to discuss, and maybe add to your relationship. For example, maybe you don't think you two talk enough, or watch movies enough, or whatever it might be. You can improve your relationship with this knowledge.
If you don't want girl one, then break up with her. It's not fair to her to have her in the relationship if there's no future and you know it. Then you can try dating girl two, IF you want to. Or are you just missing your single lifestyle and the freedom that comes with it?0