I'm not the type to have sex easily. I've been dating this one guy and we had our second date recently. I felt like he was trying to initiate sex or some kind of physical intimacy.
Is it normal to have sex so early? I don't want to do that. What are ways I can make him wait without telling him?
Should I only go to certain places with him on dates, at a certain time of the day, etc?
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It depends upon how the guy was brought up, his level of sex drive, his looks, what kind of girl he thinks you are, whether or not he's interested in the long-term or short-term, his income and so forth. If he's a really attractive guy who has money or good looks, he will likely be pushing for sooner rather than later, as if you don't put out, he'll find a girl who will. Now, if he's only average looking or not really rich, he'll wait longer, as he has less options. Ask yourself, can you see a lot of other girls dating this guy? If the answer is "yes" that means he's used to girls putting out sooner rather than later.0