I'm really 17 and am a junior in high school. I have dated a few guys it never lasted. I was not really a fan of dating, but didn't really want to kiss, hug, etc boys who are not my boyfriends. I have heard people say that high school is when you should experiment. But what exactly is meant by that?
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Who cares what they think?
Lose your virginity on YOUR TERMS; not the terms of a bunch of immature, reckless high school students, whom most of will have children unplanned and unprepared before age 21.
You should experiment when YOU feel ready to experiment and in my opinion, with a guy who views you as something greater than an experiment. Most girls these days don't mind being much more than a wet hole for a guy to experiment with, but I hope you have more self respect than that.
I'm a virgin at 20 and I'm so happy I stayed a virgin :) There are so many complex issues I've been sheilded from all because I don't have sex. My friends go through troubling issues and peace washes over me knowing I don't have to worry about them. One of my friends found out she got an STD. Another just had a miscarriage with a boyfriend. I've seen girls get used for sex and not realize it until it was too late. This is why I'm waiting until I find a guy who loves me and isn't going to give up on me before I give away my virginity. I'd suggest the same to any female :) It can really save you a lot of trouble and heart break1