Now before you answer I'm not asking about being with two people at the same time...
I have had some interesting talks with my current girlfriend about this. She's my first real girlfriend and she's dated a few guys before me. I don't know if this comes from a place of insecurity, but she feels as if you can't know what you want in a girl without dating a few people.
I of course tend to disagree. I feel many of the qualities you seek in a significant other you already seek in life for friends and acquaintances. I.e. you know a good thing when you've got it.
What's your feeling? Do you need to date multiple people to realize what you want? Does it help?
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Dating multiple people helps to educate you and allows you to grow when it comes to learning more about what you want in a serious relationship. I used to date around and now I am in a serious relationship where I see myself using all the tools I learned from previous short-term dating partners. Hope this helps.
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