i met a girl through my friend.she seemed nice and got her number. on first date we went to dinner and on the second date we had a cup of coffee.they seemed good.later on, we talked and text each other. but suddenly she did not respond to my text message and I called her 3 days later but did not respond and return my call.after nearly a week later I saw her online and said I tried to reach to her but she did not respond my call and text message and chose Facebook to wish happy new year.she texted me back. but did not mention why she is acting like this.i gave up but my friends told me to call or text back so that nearly 10 days later I texted "are you angry at me?, I thought you do not want to see me" she responded " I have some private and job related issues" I said " is there anything I can help you" she said " I can handle myself".
i have difficulty understanding; why on earth a girl met a guy twice and says " I had really good time etc" and act like this. do you think I was being stalker? is she lying about being busy? should I move on?
thanks a lot.
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There's no way to be sure if sh's lying or not, unless your friend can find out for you.
Bt I'd say , likely she is teling the truth. If she just didn't like you, she could easily just say she was busy, or say she has another boyfriend, or some such thing..or just never have replied to your texts, changed her number, blocked you...
She was so precise I the way she said that; she just isn't in a relationship mood right now, and may not be for quite a while.
Move on if you have the chance, but me, I'd give it a month or so and contact her again, ask if you could help again..maybe the answer will be different!0