I took this girl out to the movies about a month ago. I thought the date went well, at least smooth (we didn't kiss at the end). We texted a couple of times since then but I never called her.
The main reason I didn't call her is because she has been tweeting some confusing stuff. some times she's all like "im lonely and need a bf... etc. and sometimes she talks about a guy that she has a "twitter crush" on.
I guess my question is should I start texting her all the time, calling her? or take her out on a second date?
And what is an acceptable excuse for me not calling/making an effort this whole time?
(I asked this a couple of hours ago but didn't get many answers)
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You've been on one date. You don't need to explain yourself. Did you just want a texting buddy? Why wait a month to see about a 2nd date? No more texting. It's a waste of time. Call her and see if she'll talk to you first.
If she will...and she doesn't sound asleep...then ask about going out 3-4 days later. If she says anything other than a yes, okay, sounds great, or makes a counteroffer for another specific time...then forget about her. Just say "it was nice talking to you..goodbye." I will be very surprised if she agrees to a date.1
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