Would you date a girl just because she's attractive?

[keka11]

like if you didn't have anything in common with her and didn't really like her personality and by date I mean long term not just a couple of months so you get to screw her and than dump he

[Anonymous]

I would much prefer to date a girl based on both her personality and how attractive she is to me... Both have to be right for it to work. In the long term though, I feel personality compatibility is more important! :o)

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[Opinion Owner]

So want do you think? Can we talk about this... :o)

[Opinion Owner]

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[cheeky-starfish]

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[Jonny_]

I probably would, although I date a lot of girls I don't have a lot in common with purely because they can talk to me about things I don't know about and that in itself interests me. But if she does have a poor personality, I'd end up thinking... Yeah what am I doing?!

[keka11]

that makes sense...opposites attract right

[Jonny_]

Yes, I think it'd be odd to date someone too similar to myself... It seems somewhat narcissistic.

[keka11]

haha see you say that I would date someone who's the complete opposite of me but I've went on dates with guys that I have nothing in common with and after a while it got boring because I wasn't interested in any of the things he liked so I think you need to have a few things in common

[Jonny_]

It does help, I'm rather nerdy though... I love learning about things I know nothing about... Kind of sad but ah well. lol

[keka11]

that's cute! but what if those things were stuff like what's the latest clothing trend or something like that, would you really be interested in hearing about all the shoes she has and stuff like that

[Jonny_]

Ha it depends, sometimes I'm actually into the oddest of things... But you're right, I can't love everything.

[keka11]

...if you don't mind hearing girls talk about clothes and shoes all the time then I hope you know we're getting married

[Jonny_]

Ha, put it this way... My sister takes me shopping with her so I can advise her what looks great and what doesn't. Slightly bizarre no? :L

[keka11]

...i do that to my best friend that's a guy since I don't have a brother, lol I think it's smart because than you have a guys perspective

[Jonny_]

True, although it's a brothers perspective.

[keka11]

Still a guy

[Jonny_]

It's on a different level though, its not like I'd dress my sister the same way her boyfriend would.

[cheeky_starfish]

I would only date a girl if I thought we had things in common and it had the potential in my opinion to become more of a long term relationship... I would be willing to date an attractive girl to find out more about her if I didn't know her that well, but in the long term I feel there would have to be some kind of connection there, otherwise you're both wasting each others time. I hope that helps and makes sense! lol

[6Paul11]

Maybe for a few but it would get old really fast. I can look at attractive people online and not have to pick up the dinner bill, if that's all I really wanted.

I know lots of attractive women and I can't stand being around some of them. My time is too valuable to waste on eye candy.

[justsomeguylol]

Not first thing because I'm not stupid. I would rather become friends first then date you. I'm worried about who you are then what you look like. I don't know if that is insulting to you but I just trying careful with getting the right one. I mean if you were all things I like about girls like brunette hair, pretty tall, tan, hazel eyes, long legs, nice sized boobs and nice butt. I still would want to know you. I never ran into a that had all of what I liked a girl because they always had parts of I but never all.

[Blamethegame]

Commonality is easy to find in anyone, if you have great perception and are very observant you can find commonalty pretty easy! (examples are food and drink we all do that everyday). But, personalty sure would be the deal breaker. I wouldn't even date her if she was the hottest thing on the planet if she had the looser mentality.

[GoodBetterBestBad]

The sex life would be a lot better, I know that much.

I probably wouldn't though, I mean a relationship isn't just based on looks; it's based on that "connection" you have, ya know?

[gonyr]

I would definitely give a girl a shot and try it out if she was really hot. physical attraction is needed for a relationship to work.

[keka11]

yeah but don't you get tired of the whole physical attraction thing when you actually want to have a good time with the person and not really care about what they look like

[gonyr]

as someone who has been with the same girl for 3 years, yea I care a lot about having a good time with them. But you gotta be physically attracted to them. If I was single and saw a really hot girl that I had a chance to talk to, id go for it. maybe go on a date. if I didn't enjoy it than its done with. but there's gotta be an attraction there first. not gonna spend my life with someone who I don't find at all attractive

[sirhoward90]

Nope. If I don't click with her, I'm not even slightly interested. Won't even hug or kiss her, let alone date or sleep with her.

[imonfire]

of course... I wouldn't pretend to be in love. but I would certainly enjoy the experience.

[Koldhearted]

everyone in this day and age in the ranges of 15-34 is probably already doing this

[MakeLoveNotWar]

Would only date so I could bang.

I get turned off by girls with personalities I dislike, so definitely nothing longterm is happening there...

[Moloch]

Not long term. I wouldn't be able to put up with it for long.

[Anonymous]

Most people that do date them are doing it on looks almost exclusively.

[walk-around-blind]

lol no definitely not. I'm pretty judgmental I when it comes to character. Pretty only goes so far.

[Anonymous]

I would only date a girl if I thought we might have things in common and it had the potential to be a long term relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

Why, do you think a guy is dating you for 'one thing' only and you feel he doesn't like your personality and/or doesn't have anything in common with you?

[Opinion Owner]

I have added you as a friend too, if that's OK on here.

[sketchy]

'Til something better comes along...

[Xx_DRE_xX]

If I can put up with it? But I kinda doubt that.

[Lj237]

i could never do that

[Anonymous]

Nope. I would not.