So he but dialed me, I heard a lady he was talking to in his car.. He lied and said he was not talking to another lady.. But he never texted or called me for seven hours later..
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So you're friends with benefits? Did you ever establish rules for this relationship?
he butt dialed you so he didn't intentionally throw it in your face and when you asked he tried to protect you by lying (if that is in fact the case). I think to get mad at a casual sex relationship because they are potentially pursuing other women, and rules aren't established, is kind of like having your cake and eating it too. You are fine with a casual relationship but jealous that he may be looking around still
I think you should express your feelings and tell the guy what you want. A casual but exclusive relationship and see what he thinks/feels/wants. It's fair to feel some jealousy but not especially fair to be mad at him. If you really want to know the truth tell him that you want the truth, but then you have to be prepared for it and not give him reason to feel like he cannot tell the truth (in other words you can get angry at the truth)0