Last night we were just relaxing in bed when my boyfriend suddenly said "omg I don't think I can go back to dating the kind of girls I dated before, they were so demanding. You're so chill, you've raised the bar so high." At first I was like...ok. But now it suddenly occurred to me that maybe I'm a pushover in this relationship? I like to give the guy space in a relationship and just accept and love them for the people the are. But am I doing it to the point that I'm being a pushover? I do put my foot down when my boyfriend does things I don't like, but that rarely happens.
Guys is the girl being too meek when you find them super chill?
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You don't sound like a pushover. Because if you were, you'd feel it in your gut. If you are vocal when something isn't floating your boat, you're standing on good grounds. A bad sign would be saying yes to him when you really want to be saying no. There doesn't have to be conflict in a relationship. If things are chill and the arguments are few and far between, more power to ya! ;)0