My ex and I broke up a little over a month ago and since then she is dating someone new. From time to time she sends me a text message asking how I am and how is my family. I try not to talk to her because I am still kinda mad on how fast she is dating someone new, especially when she told me she didn't want anything right now. Another thing that bothers me is how she is always posting pictures on Facebook with her new guy knowing that I will see them and get mad. So yesterday she texted me saying that she wanted to see me to give me back a shirt I left at her house while we were dating. First thing why the sudden interest in giving this back to me, she was even willing to go to my house. I told her that I couldn't because I had work and then she said...Are you mad with me?
Why would she ask that?! Doesn't she know the answer? She left me, she is dating someone new after a month! What is happening?
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Thing to know about girls is that we HATE being on the bad side of guys; the feeling that they may be mad at us can drive us crazy. I think she probably has thought that for a while and knew the correct answer but didn't want to face reality by asking. As for the random here and there texts, she probably genuinely still wants to be friends. I'm not giving her slack or reason (because saying you don't wanna be with someone and then dating again a month later is kinda low) but maybe she actually did meet another guy whom she liked again, or he's a complete rebound. More than likely the second only because of the time frame and she was probably missing the feeling of having a relationship. Just be honest with her and try not to show your anger too much when you do so, even though that'll be tough. Sometimes you gotta hit girls with the cold hard truth no matter how much it may hurt us just for us to realize certain things.0