I like hugging, and a lot of the time I do like the guy friend in question. I could even have a relationship with him. but the thing is, if I cuddle him in bed (meaning holding him or him holding me, but without an sexual touching), it almost always leads to him wanting sex like right then, or trying to touch me sexually. Then it ends up being like they want to sleep with me, which wasn't what I was meaning, I really truly just like hugging people, and only want to sleep with someone in a relationship, so how do I not end up looking like I'm arousing him or making him want sex? Is there actually any guy out there would would cuddle just for cuddling? and also if I jump in my friends bed, they will think I want to have sex with them. Do I need to give up cuddling guy friends? They might just interpret it like I'm trying to initiate sex. Once I even said the word cuddle and he thought it was code for sex :(.
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Guys resent girls for their own unfulfilled sexual arousal. Cuddling with guy friends and not fooling around with them will only make them pissed off. Giving them hugs from time to time should be OK, though.1