Yea... guys don't see cuddling in the same way girls do.
For guys, cuddling is just a step on the way to sex.
For girls, cuddling can be an end to itself.
That doesn't mean you can't find a guy who will be happy with just cuddling... it's just that he won't be happy with it for very long. Eventually it just becomes teasing, because there is never any escalation towards sex. And for guys, sex is always the ultimate goal.
The way I understand it, women can enjoy each of the steps towards sex, and sex itself, each in their own right. Which is why a girl can still enjoy sex even if she doesn't happen to orgasm that time.
It would be impossible for a man to enjoy sex without orgasm. The only reason we enjoy the steps before that, are because we're heading to the climax - the finish line. If we don't get there, then all the bits before that are worthless, pointless, and cockteasingly painful.
So with cuddling - yes, you can enjoy it for what it is. You're a girl. You're actually getting part of the whole feminine sexual experience - a guy is holding you and making you feel warm protected and safe.
For a guy, it's a step on the way to sex. If he has sex from it, then obviously the cuddling was great. If he doesn't, then cuddling was just one big long tease that went nowhere.
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Is this a serious question ? I mean seriously. You're in bed with a guy, you want to cuddle, what is he supposed to expect ? Playing scrabble ?
No.
Guys resent girls for their own unfulfilled sexual arousal. Cuddling with guy friends and not fooling around with them will only make them pissed off. Giving them hugs from time to time should be OK, though.
If they are a friend, then you shouldn't cuddle with them. He's not the one crossing the friendship line you are. If its something you wouldn't do with a brother then you shouldn't do it with male friends either
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