Hello, thanks for taking the time to read my conflict/problem/confusion.
In my college business class there's this guy I had a crush on for so long, and then in the last two months we've been talking a lot. A month later, we worked on a team project, and then exchanged phone numbers so we could text. The texts were really enjoyable, we discuss all sorts of different things, and lately they've been kind've flirtatious. He asked if I wanted to get coffee with him tomorrow so of course I said yes!
However, he has a girlfriend, and I found out they've been together for 2 whole years! So what should I do? Is he just using me as an escape from reality for a bit? Or does he really only see me as a friend? Does he want to cheat?
I'm confused as to what my angle should be...I really like him and don't want to get hurt :/ But why would he be flirtatious with me and text me several times a day when he has a girlfriend?
Thanks, all answers welcome!
So it looks like we will be just friends! Which is good, because I don't want him to cheat nor be the girl he's cheating with, but at the same time I like him more than that...I'll try to tone that down then lol
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Men have no problems with polygamy. We can have a number one who is our official GF. But we can also have number 2, 3,... We just need to like the girl to sleep with her, we don't need to be in love. For this guy cheating on GFs might not be a biggie, he's done it before, and he's probably not going to leave his GF. You like him, that's OK. But be aware that if you play along you'd be partially responsible for the cheating on other woman. Think morally, if you were the GF, would you like your Boyfriend to cheat on you with some other woman?1