Ok I'm 21 and he's 20, so me and this guy met online (we have been webcam/texting for a week now) and have been teasing each other (sexually) like crazy and he just moved to my city for college. Should we hook up on our first date...We both really want to but I kind of want him all to myself (in a relationship)...and I don't want him to date any other woman...im so conflicted.
No regrets, because I didn't have sex with him. I have to admit if I did have sex with him I would have had feelings for him because I did like his personality a lot.
But hey, you when some you loose some, but at least I'm happy. Thanks everyone for your insight and those of you who didn't judge. I appreciate it.
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if you want a relationship I guess it is because he has giving you more than sexual attraction, he has let you see another part of him, and that is why you care, have you done the same? and has he seem like he gets those performance of personality you display? if, he like yourself, has seen more of you than the sexy part then yes, the problem is not "jumping" too soon, the problem is just working one area and the complaining "he oonly wants me for sex" so if you have charmed him in other ways, yes sex my be an strong urge, but very likely he also likes oter sides of you and then a relationship will happen even if you jump on him ASAP, but he also needs the right mindset, I know a lot of guys my age who will aspire to free sex as long as they can, and only getting into a relationship if they can not have that easy sex, is quite immature, but quite real, a guy might be like "I already can f* her, why would I invest in a relatonship?", but again, even if those guys want nothing but an easy f*, IF you are charming, you trully connect then even they will be like "maybe something more, this girl is rather special".1